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What’s the thing you’re most scared to do? What would it take to get you to do it?

I’m most scared to do. What would it take to get me to do it?

So, the thing I’m most scared to do is public speaking and anything like making videos.

So, I want to become a confident coach, and I’ve wanted to make a course and go through it with the women I would be helping.

I’ve had this idea for about three years now, and the only way I could get it done was to get a coach.

I did that, and the risk of investing in myself is high, but this urge to do this keeps returning to me. I don’t want to miss something God wants me to do, so I set my launch date for March 8th,2024, and decided to post about what I will do all of February.

My coach/mentor knows about it, so I’m making myself accountable by posting this today.

So, I can’t stop myself from hiding and not doing my best for this to succeed, so here I am, taking a significant risk but knowing I’m at peace, too, and I’m scared but ready to do something that feels right for me to do now.

What do you complain about the most?

I complain about the most.

I’m tired, which is valid with working nights, and my sleep cycle goes from good to bad to decent.

Then why is it so cold out, and how I don’t want to deal with the cold, and I want to stay in my warm bed until spring comes around.

What are your favorite sports to watch and play?

My favorite sports to watch and play?

That would be European soccer, which they call football, and my favorite team is Liverpool.

Also, I watch Formula One, and Lewis Hamilton is my favorite driver.

I don’t play any sports. I used to play basketball for fun and watch it, but I don’t anymore.

What would you do if you won the lottery?

I do if I won the lottery?

Pay off my student loans

I quit my job and do what I love full-time, which would be writing and coaching.

I can do what I love and not worry about the debt or stress of working a job that drains me.

I would still live a simple life, for I don’t need much.

Maybe a personal chef a couple of times a week so that I can get a break from cooking, and perhaps they will help me stay on a healthy lifestyle with new, fresh takes on recipes and meal planning.

I would love to help my family and travel the world.

Write more books and see where life takes me.

I would take more risks, so I keep growing and try not to get stuck.

I would give back to reading programs and charities and help make the world better.

What books do you want to read?

Do I want to read?

Here is a few

Also, I’m currently reading Dark Lies, which is book three in the Magic Side: Wolf Bound series by Veronica Douglas

I am also reading The Priory of the Orange Tree by Samantha Shannons. I can’t seem just to read one book at a time. But I hope to finish the books I’m currently reading to get a start on the ones I listed and more to come.

List five things you do for fun.

I do for fun?

1. Spending time with my family

2. Playing video games

3. Listening to it or going to concerts, but it’s a while since I’ve been to a concert.

4. Reading and writing

5. Making art- whether that’s just drawing or painting

Write about your first name: its meaning, significance, etymology, etc.

Of my name not very happy meaning but here’s what I found.

Popularity:28288

Origin:Irish

Meaning:broken-hearted, sorrowful and daughter

Deidre is a feminine name of Irish origin that is sure to help baby appreciate mythology. A variant spelling of Deirdre, this name translates to “broken-hearted” or “sorrowful,” and refers to the tragic heroine in Irish mythology. Dierdre, known as “Dierdre of the Sorrows,” lives a life involving a dangerous prophecy, arranged marriages, fatal fights, and death by a broken heart. If you appreciate the power of stories—or tend to lean toward the macabre—and want to inspire baby to do the same, Deidre definitely does the job.

Deirdre was the 6645th most popular girls name. In 2021 there were only 17 baby girls named Deirdre. 1 out of every 104,676 baby girls born in 2021 are named Deirdre.

So I found out there was a saint by named St Ita whom was born in the south east region of Ireland in County Waterford in 475 and was originally named Deirdre. She died around 570. St Ita moved to Killeedy, Limerick, and founded a community of women dedicated to God.

I didn’t know a saint had my name that’s pretty cool.

Also here is something I thought is so true

Deirdre as a girl’s name is of Irish and Gaelic origin meaning “broken-hearted or sorrowful.” Though the meaning may not be the most attractive, remember that some of life’s greatest joys and experiences come after overcoming dark times. In mythology, the name comes from a Celtic legend similar to Tristan and Isolde.

I know my name is a sad one but I don’t overthink the meaning of my name because well life has its ups and downs.

And I’m living a pretty content life and enjoying my time.

But I did enjoy the research part and finding new information.

A link to the full story of Deirdre /http://bardmythologies.com/deirdre-of-the-sorrows/

What makes a good leader?

A good leader?

Someone willing to admit their wrong

Someone who listens

Someone willing to walk a mile in your shoes to understand the situation better so they can solve the problem in the best way possible.

Someone who leads by example

Someone who isn’t biased but treats everyone the same way.

One who doesn’t brush off problems but directs them.

Someone who decides to help the team as a whole.

Someone who makes sure they come in strong for the people and not just about the numbers.

Someone who isn’t afraid to stand up when others are being wrong

Someone who checks their ego at the door.

Someone kind and willing to help makes great work schedules and knows his staff on a professional level.

If you could un-invent something, what would it be?

Un-invent something; what would it be?

Drugs like heroin and street drugs people are mixing with fentanyl and killing people.

So, addiction to those drugs wouldn’t be possible, and so many people who made the wrong choice to try it on their own or peer pressure wouldn’t go down such a wrong path.

And it would be good, but I feel addiction would be a good thing to go away, too. Because if people couldn’t be addicted to bad things or even good things, would our attention span be limited, and what would we be doing with our lives?

This prompt has me thinking of how if we eliminate one thing, won’t something else replace its void, and if we un-invent so much?

What would become of us? Lucky for us, it’s just a prompt, but we can still limit the things that become addicting or mind-numbing.

Think back on your most memorable road trip.

Memorable road trip?

It would have to be when we left Hawaii and visited my aunt in California before driving to Virginia.

To stay with my grandparents while my dad was getting his new assignment in the army.

I don’t remember much other than every time we drove at night and didn’t stop at a hotel or motel; I would lay across my sister’s laps and sleep and move before they woke up.

Also, I don’t remember, but in one incident, I spilled my hot chocolate on my middle sister, and then she had to share her cup of hot chocolate with me. I guess being the baby of the family had some perks.

Also, I remember we got a room for four and sneaked in my one sister, who was asleep in the car. And we made sure they didn’t see my other sister when we got back in the car in the morning.

I also remember watching old VHS tapes in a VHS player in our van so we weren’t bored out of our minds as we kept driving. At one point, our Jerry McGuire movie got stuck, and some guy was to fix it, but we never saw the tape again.

We did get to our destination and stayed in Virginia for a couple of months but soon ended up in Maryland, and sadly, that was the end of a long road trip.

What snack would you eat right now?

Would I be eating right now?

Chocolate, preferably Lindor or Ferrero Rocher chocolate

But I’m eating French vanilla ice cream with crushed Oreos in it right now.

What is your mission?

My mission?

To spread positivity and hope through my writing and quotes, I share.

My newest mission is to start helping women who lack confidence find their voice so they can live the life they want and need to live.

I like helping people, and I hope to fulfill my mission more this year and for many years.

And I look forward to other missions as they pop up, for I’m ready for what God has in store for me.

What are your thoughts on the concept of living a very long life?

Thoughts on the concept of living a very long life?

Bring it on for I want to live as long as God willingly will let me.

I want to do everything he needs and live my purpose fully.

I know there will be hard times when I get old as my bones and body might not be as strong, but the hope of knowing God is still by my side and I’ve lived through whatever he blessed me with is enough for me to look forward to aging.

Do you spend more time thinking about the future or the past? Why?

More time thinking about the future or the past? Why?

I think more about my future than my past because I am working towards a better future.

And there is noting in the past that can help me move forward so I don’t think about it anymore.

I instead focus on the future as it’s something to look forward to, and I can still change what I’m doing now to have a better plan for the future. The past is done and sealed up and can’t be reversed, so there is no part in worrying about the things I did back then.

I’m all about living in the now and working towards the possibilities my future holds as I work towards making a living and living a happy and peaceful life.

What is the greatest gift someone could give you?

Gift someone could give me? Is there time and love for memories spent with them that will last a lifetime. I know I will cherish it more than anything materialistic.