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Happy International Women’s Day!

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Today I launch my website and Facebook group “Release Your Pain, Embrace Your Confidence”, in honor of the women who need confidence and their voice to be heard.

For I want to help them grow in self-love and confidence and find away to express themselves and feel comfortable in their own skin and Embrace that they are so much more than what others have said to them in the past and the present.

I, too, used to be so quiet that I was passed by or not seen because I didn’t want the attention if I spoke up you would see my flaws and my struggles and see where my smile didn’t reach my eyes.

You would see I was just a woman trying to get by. I was a woman trying to blend within the crowd because I wasn’t what society said I should look like. But with a life coach and doing the hard work, I found my self-love and confidence. I enhanced my voice and allowed myself to be seen, and I allowed change to happen in me and changed my body and soul. But don’t get me wrong, I have fears, and stepping up is scary and honest, but I’m doing it anyway, for I only have one life to live, and I know I can’t ignore this feeling and meaning to be more for others and myself.

Spiritually I continue to grow and mentally too and physically I still have work to do but I do it for me and those who are struggling too.

I want to help, and I will, and it will take time for trust and growth, too, but the women who need me will find me, and together, we will celebrate not just today but every moment God gives us!

I know this post is a long one but if you made it this far, here are the links to my website if you are a woman who would like to join my private and safe haven Facebook group to “Release your pain, Embrace your Confidence” with other women then send me a request on Facebook and let’s work together to make a change!

http://deirdrestokescoaching.com

https://www.facebook.com/groups/7550788278266808

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Happy Birthday to me!

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I am grateful for another year to be alive, and for all I have been through this year to get to today. I am older, and I know today will be great with the Lord by my side and getting to spend today with those who love me the most. I truly hope today will be great for everyone else. As the sun shines and leaves fall, we all continue to grow and learn and love with all we have!🎉💯❤️🎈🤗🙌🏽🙏🏽🥰😸

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Um good question

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List 10 things you know to be absolutely certain.

So there are a few, and I will see if I get to ten.

1. I believe and trust in God

2. I love my family

3. I love my dog Clifford

4. I am loyal to my family

5. I am worthy

6. That I matter

7. That I love to read

8.That I love to write

9. That I am meant to use my voice through writing.

10. That I am living my life and not just surviving.

I don’t know how deep this question was supposed to be, but those are the top ten for me, and if I had to list one or two more, it would be, I am sure I love art and movies. And I am confident I am who I am supposed to be, and being sensitive and in tune with my feelings and understanding myself better now is the best part of being me!

I hope you all have a blessed day, and don’t stress too much about this prompt!

Written By: Deirdre Stokes Copyrighted ©️ 2023 By Deirdre Stokes

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How I

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How do you express your gratitude?

Express my gratitude.

Through my words as I want you to know how much you’ve helped me.

Through a hug, I will sometimes write those words down, and you can look at them later.

I hope to keep showing my gratitude to everyone who does good for me, as life is too short not to say what needs to be said to them.

Because sometimes, remembering those moments of how you helped someone can get you through moments of doubt.

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What I am

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What are you most worried about for the future?

most worried about my future would be my financial stability and what I will be doing professionally, as where I am now working is not my future job.

Now if I am worried about the future in a whole. That is a big thing to worry about as I can’t control how the world will be as the people in government and other places rule us.

The world is full of many sad and unnecessary violence, and I know the future is not clear if those things will get better or worse.

I do know that God is by my side now, and he will be in my future as well, and no matter what storms are thrown my way, as long as I stay strong in my faith, it will be what it will be. I will find joy and peace, and understanding somehow.

The future of this world I can’t control, but my future, I can listen to God and stay on the right path and not worry too much about it.

If there is one thing I learned, worrying too much makes the outcome way worse than it can be, so I will not worry and let the Lord guide me, as he is the only one who knows what is in store for me.

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What

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What makes a teacher great?

Is a teacher great? I feel the best teachers are the knowledgeable ones.

They know the subject, and they are willing to help you in any way possible, and they make the subject clear for you before moving on.

They are kind, and they make learning fun and worth the challenge.

They push you to your creative limits because they believe in you, and they want you out of your comfort zone.

They are friendly but professional, and their personality and humor make you remember them many years later.

A great teacher’s lessons stay with you for life, and I’m so glad I had some great teachers in my lifetime.

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Have I ever

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Have you ever had surgery? What for?

Had surgery before? Yes, but only outpatient when I needed an implant in my mouth.

It takes quite a while as they put in a new root, and you let that heal for months.

Then they put in the screw and hope your mouth doesn’t reject it, and for three more months, you wait patiently.

Then when everything looks good, you get your mold for the tooth and wait for that to come in, and when it does.

You will be glad it will finally be over—no more waiting.

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Like a nightmare

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I can’t seem to wake up from

Until my fear is so high I wake up

Shaken up and pray the dream will never come true.

That there is no true meaning to it.

And that it was just a nightmare or a fiction story; I needed to write.

As for how that dream ended, I’m not too fond of the unknown.

But I know we are better together than when we are apart.

So here’s to fighting the unknown together and coming out on the better side.

Written By: Deirdre Stokes Copyrighted ©️ 2023 By Deirdre Stokes

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Happy Mother’s Day

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Everyone!

I hope you enjoy your day with your loved ones. Or get a moment to relax and appreciate the memories, as today may be different for us all.

I just had an excellent breakfast with my mother and the rest of my family.

I feel truly blessed to spend time with my mother, my rock and biggest supporter.

We have so many memories together that I will always cherish them.

Today is just another day of showing her how much I love her.

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My favorite

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What is your favorite holiday? Why is it your favorite?

Holiday is Christmas as it is a magical time of year.

It’s a time when spending time with each other is at the highest.

When Christmas movies are on, they are one of the things I look forward to and are my favorite part of the holiday. Of course, the Christmas lights are great too

Gifts are nice but as I get older they aren’t what I look forward too.

Christmas reminds me to show my love for others and to spend what time we have together. And it’s the time of year when yo reflect on all that you did and what you didn’t do.

It’s a time to relax and just drink delicious holiday drinks and eat sweets and just be merry.

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If I had to

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What are your favorite emojis?

Choose my favorite emojis; um, what would they be?

🤪 For working 7 days straight at work can drive me a little crazy.

🤣 because every day there is something worth laughing so hard at.

🤦🏽‍♀️ Because everyone has that one person who can’t seem to get together, so you feel like you’re doing this all day, every day

🤗 Because I don’t like hugs but virtual hugs are just great.

🙏🏽 For praying for others’ safety and situations is something I love to do. Wishing the best for others when times get hard is all we can do sometimes.

😎 this one looks fantastic, and I like to be cool sometimes or slick when I get away with something.

❤️😘🥰 because there are some people I love out there and I ain’t afraid to show it.

And those are the emojis of my life!

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Happy Thanksgiving

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Everyone, I am so thankful to be here and have another great thanksgiving with my family and our dog.

Today is just another reminder of how blessed and thankful we all are to be alive and well.

I hope those that celebrated today that our hearts and minds are as big and full as our bellies are now.

And that the joy and love continues on long after today and the holidays come and go.

Written by: Deirdre Stokes

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Seven

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I can’t believe I’ve been on here for seven years writing and reading other word press authors.

Seven years of blogging for me on Nov 4th!

It’s been a beautiful journey finding and tuning my poetic voice, and it’s been rough at times but so worth it.

Seven years down and many more to come.

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Happy

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Birthday to me!

I can honestly say today will be a good day, for I am blessed to have woken up to see this day.

I am happy to be me, and as I reflect on how much I’ve grown this year.

I can’t help but smile even though there have been struggles.

I look forward to many more excellent moments as I walk into today!